The doctor had come into the family waiting room to tell her the results of the recent CAT scan; and the first words out of his mouth were, “It’s not good news.” I was sitting with the wife of a patient who was just brought into the Emergency Department by the paramedics, providing comfort and care as the chaplains often do for the families of trauma patients. After the doctor told us the results of the tests, he said, “Now is a good time to pray,” as he gave a nod in my direction. 

The story of Mary and Martha is one of those Gospel readings that hits close to home! Whether you relate to Mary - having the work you are passionate about de-valued, or to Martha - feeling alone and overwhelmed in the hard work you’re doing, this reading shows us a snapshot of one of the most common human experiences. 

I have fond memories of celebrating this holiday every year. While I haven’t always been completely satisfied with the leadership of our country, during both democratic and republican presidencies, this was the one day each year we came together in unity to celebrate our common love of country, to be proud of our nation and give thanks for living in this land. But this year, leading up to the 4th of July, the week was full of disappointments. And that’s really an understatement!

I’m so proud of you. When you’re a kid—or an adult—you long to hear those words from a parent, a teacher, a coach. Too often what we feel is shame. That we’re not good enough. Smart enough. Attractive enough. Talented enough.